When 2 people get involved, in the beginning, everything is ultimately, oh-so grand. Honeymoon stage. Humpin' like bunnies. Rainbows and flowers. You know the scene... all that mushy crap. Now, everyone stays in high hopes for this romance scene to last throughout the rest of their self-made, self-directed movie, but depending on who they are or who they are with, somebody always take a turn for the worst or either life kicks in and the bullshit-flower-phase subsides. If this is not you, then you need to go get married or find another one of my most awesome post to read pertaining to love and/or ultra-great sex.
Scene: Will and Jada
Anywho, I came to this conclusion that there are relationships that hold some amounts of reputable stature. I want to assume that this small peice of a characteristic has a small amount to do with how people tend to fall into these "fake"tionships. And I will also assume that they feel the need to uphold what it is that everyone on the outside assumes is going on inside. After being with someone for a certain amount of time, it seems as if everyone around them expects for this couple to be together, live together, stay together, get married, make babies... in other words, it wouldn't be right if they were apart. The world would come to an absolute end and everyone's life depends on and is based around these two lovebirds. There is no doubt, in my mind, that the love is definitely there. However, some people reach a point where everyone is reading on different grade levels. BUT... with all their might and every fighting power in there little bones, they just have to stay together to save the world. Maybe there is a few good moments here and there, but none worth putting up with the bullshit that no one else seems to know about. No relationship is perfect, but people also fall short of common sense when that is all they have to bank on.
Scene: That's My Man, Bitches!!
Now the other situation that could have someone falling into a "fake"tionship can be a little complicated. Someone feels that they have a point to prove. In this particular relationship, there is no expectation from the outsiders, other than to fail. The difference in this situation... there has probably been signs and symptoms of infedelity, someone having to fight to prove their love, or the simple fact that maybe there were some shit-talkers doubting the fact that the 2 of them would never last together. They, then, find themselves stuck... or putting up with unhealthy situations to prove a point to set the record straight for those people who bad-mouthed them in the first place. They continuously put up with the bullshit, screaming to the top of their lungs, "it's alrite cuz he/she come home to me every night!" *in my best ghetto dialect* Now, the other thing that gets me about this relationship, is it consists of some type of weird friendship?... lol, These 2 tend to rely on each other for back up when they know the other has done some foul shit. Never let them see you sweat. So when shit get's tough and they've got caught up, the person who "swears" to love them most will always have their back. And it works. But why would you want to put yourself in these type of situations. *shrugs* Who knows? And there you have it, another "fake"tionship.
Even the most motivated, highly active person can run into a little laziness here and there. People can get so comfortable and sot in ways that which become habits and are hard to break. Nothing wrong with a little stability, you would think. So after the honeymoon scene is over, basically the work and effort that was put into getting and maintaining an actual relationship with this particular person is now stabalizing under the notion, "I did what I had to do. Now I'm good." And if you ask me, I see this as being the first signs to a wonderful "fake"tionship. But it doesn't stop there because there are plenty of other factors of comfortability that could fall in this scene. Let's try: We have a baby/kids excuse... TAKE 1! We share a house together excuse... TAKE 2! We have an understanding... TAKE 3! I won't be able to afford this by myself... TAKE 4! So while they are continuously coming up with excuses as to why the 2 of them are still together/won't leave, with all of the miserable factors waddling underneath, they don't realize how easy and quick it was falling into such a "fake"tionship. It was all good just a week ago, LOL!! They won't admit to themselves and everyone else, it's only because everyone is so comfortable. And because they are use to a particular lifestyle being with this person, they would rather suffer through the heartache and come up with new excuses than to get their lazy ass up and leave.
There is no climax in this movie. Or we could say the beginning is the most climaxed that you would ever get out of any of these scenes. How is that for irony?! LOL! Everyone has to absolutely look picture perfect when walking out the door. But let's be honest about the debris that is tailing behind you because of the tornado that just swept through your house. If your relationship is fake, then so are you. You're lieing to yourself, the people around you, and let's not even talk about the kids. But what can you say? All's well that end's well... or not...
Until next time bloggers...
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