How To Get Your Girl To Have A 3some

Fellas, I know, I know. I thought that in this day and time, women would have become a little more open-minded to experimenting as far as what goes on in the bedroom. Especially when being in a long term relationship. I guess adding a third party is a bit extreme?! lol, Understandable. I can totally see both sides of everyone's story, although I have my very own side to my story. Well this is not about me and in the meantime, I've had quite a few guys ask me what do they need to do in order to get that ultimate fantasy checked off of their bucket list. I guess 2 women on one dick is almost better than winning a million bucks. Well I'm here to tell you guys that if you haven't already hooked up with the perfect freak, then you are going to have to put in some work. Believe me, I am here to help. If you can't handle the cards you are dealt, then don't play the game.

Guys, you're probably finding that most females don't really "claim" friendship with a lot of other females. If they do, her friend is not the answer. Honestly, they all think that the next bitch is out to get them. True story, lol. It's like a horror film. Women who live under this notion will always be the hardest to break. Anywho, if you are not making your woman feel like she is the one and only, then you should expect a rage of jealousy or issues with being insecure. Which means your answer is and will always be, "NO". Is this your fault? Probably not. But your main goal should be to fix it. A happy woman = a spoiled happy man.

Also fellas, you tend to think that you are Big Billy Bad Asses from time to time. I have to bring you down a notch or two. Cockiness and ego gets you nowhere. *and in that order* If anything, the next bitch should be jealous of what you and your main lady have. If the main boo/wifey doesn't have that feeling of reassurance, and the 2 of you aren't making all the girls jealous every time you guys step out, then "Houston, we have a problem". Roaming eyes, non-introductory conversations that bypass your woman as she is standing next to you, getting missing for longer than the time it takes to get a drink from the bar... big no-no's. You should never feel (nor make her feel) that your woman is a tag-a-long. She should be flaunted as your trophy. Want something to be cocky about? Be cocky about the fact that you got the baddest bitch in the room. Until you can get this right, there is no point to even mention your little fantasy. Because, now it is of no importance. And to be honest guys, if this feeling doesn't come natural to begin with, then maybe you are with the wrong woman and you should just settle for 2 random ass broads that are willing and available. I think we call them kind, hoes, lol. All in all, this whole play of events is a psychological process. Read between the lines.

Strip clubs are golden. If you can get your lady in a strip club, then we are on to some hot shit. First rounds are usually awkward and uncomfortable, however it may turn out to be the time of your life (or hers) once SHE realize how much she really enjoys seeing ass and titties walk pass her. Most women shy away from things they have never been exposed to, thus we have the fear of being looked at as "gay". dun-dun-duuuunnnn. We can also assume the same for people in general. Furthermore, if you happen to be one of those guys who absolutely loves to ball 'til you fall at the strip club (without the wifey), now is not the time to be showing your true colors. So, your favorite dancer, "Sprinkles", is coming on stage next... do not stare. Do not get all awkward because your girl is with you and you feel you can't be yourself. If this is the case, then these sexual ventures weren't cut out for you to begin with. You have to have some type of self-control. Too much excitement can cause your whole dream to go down the drain. You should be laxed and comfortable and your lady shouldn't feel the least bit threatened in her skin. This is the time where we are sitting back and observing your woman's every action.  Because, please believe me when I say that she is observing you. So your position should be just playing it cool. Whatever she asks for, give it to her. Inquiries about lap dances or what a tooter shooter is, VIP; your answer should be, "would you like one?" It's your job to make her feel comfortable in every way possible, while hoping for the possibilities of her "getting loose". These minor experiences need to be experienced together (in reality, they are major to her), and believe me when I say that a simple lap dance is a good way to start. 

Pornos are a good way to bring up conversation about trying new things. If you guys don't watch pornos together, then we really have some work to do, because now you have to get her in the mood just to watch porn with you. smh, sheesh!! Let's just pretend that we are already in the habit, let's try some new genres of porn: girl on girl action... wait for it... wait for it.... 2 men and a woman... wait for it..... 2 women and a man..... wait for it ..... wait for iiitttttt..... Believe it or not, porn is a great conversation piece. Just because you popped in the DVD or pulled it up on whatever site, doesn't mean it's time to get nasty and play "monkey see, monkey do". It's a movie!! Slow your hormones down people!! Take your time and be patient. If you learn nothing else, that tip right there sums everything up in a nutshell. So, right when we are getting into this girl on girl action scene, take note in your girls postitioning and her face. Let's get into this scenery for a good 5 to 10 minutes, because after a while she's going to begin to get uncomfortable anyway. Ask her, "what does she think about it", "would she ever", just throw random questions out there, set up scenes and scenarios that could possibly work out in both you and her favor... y'know... just seeing where her head is at. Never forget that this is NOT about you, and it never will be. The only way anything is going to take effect is if you play by her rules anyway. *shrugs* That's just the way it works. Sorry. And if you don't like it, you can suck it up and keep dreamin.

Last but not least, because this is the most important of them all (and probably should have been first); your line of communication should ABSOLUTELY be on top notch point!! Without it, you are a non-factor in ALL aspects of your relationship and it's heading up Shit Creek anyway. A FORT of trust must be built!! In the beginning, rules have to be set, laws have to be placed, "safe" words established (yes, "pineapples" will due), the whole nine. You need to know where her head is at, and she needs to know what kind of place you are in, at all times. These type of activities aren't meant to take place between weak-minded or jealous individuals. The last thing we need is for an ignorant asshole to get beside themselves and believe that this is going to happen on a regular basis (here comes that ego again). Or worst, run away with the third party.  Dummy!! you just fucked yourself in the ass!! That brings mind to another post: "Why you shouldn't wife the "other" chick". (Random) Everything should be done together. And your boo is the one who should be the one picking the girl, unless you guys have some other type of weird arrangement. Even if the trust and communication is established, she needs all rights on the forefront. It's her call.

Don't make this out to be a special project/chore/job. The fun part is and should be the journey. To be honest, not everyone get's the experience they've always dreamed of. But whatever you do, always remember that safe sex is the best sex. If you make it to your big day, the big box of magnums is the best choice.

I think that will do for now. Any questions, feel free to comment below. Ladies, if you're feeling some type of way, it probably means you want it and won't admit it, LOL!! On another note, ladies I'll be back to give you tips on how to get your man to get kinky (without a threesome).

Until next time bloggers...